Control is something we as a people love to have. We like to control our lives and other peoples lives. We say we aren’t controlling all while unconsciously we have a desire to be in control.
Who doesn’t want a perfect life?! We feel like if we can control every aspect of our lives then we will be able to make our lives perfect.
Then life occurs and we realize we can’t control everything. We don’t have control of whether we get sick or not. We can’t control how long we may live. We can’t control other’s actions. Truth is, we can’t control many things about our lives.
Once this is realized, we can find ourselves in a rut, focusing on what we can’t control rather than what we can control.
What can we control you ask?
We can control how we look at things. If we are looking through dirty glasses then all we will see is dirt as we live our lives, but if we clean our glasses we can see clearly and be thankful for the life we live. Positivity is a choice. How you look at your life is on you! If you find the positive in your life so many things will change.
Clean the lenses on the glasses of your life and see clearly. Take back control of your thought processes, make a positive change and watch the tone of your life change.